Pamela Anderson is a woman scorned! And she’s taking her fury to Instagram!
The Baywatch star took to social media to air her dirty laundry in the wee hours of Tuesday morning.
According to Pam, she’s broken up with her boyfriend of over two years, soccer star Adil Rami — because she found out what he’s been up to!
Her post, which features a bittersweet photo of the two, begins ominously:
“It’s hard to accept ?”
Uh oh. We don’t like the look of that broken heart.
But it gets worse than just some conscious uncoupling statement. Pam GOES OFF, writing:
“The last (more than) 2 years of my life have been a big lie. I was scammed, led to believe … we were in « big love »?”
We hope that doesn’t mean he had two other wives…
Anyway, let’s get to what Pam is really accusing her man of. Because it’s pretty serious.
“I’m devastated to find out in the last few days. That he was living a double life.”
“He used to joke about other players who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives. He called those men monsters. ?”
But he was apparently just posturing. Because what he did, well…
“But this is worse. He lied to all. How is it possible to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this – I’m sure there were others.
He is the monster.”
Oh man. She is straight up accusing him of living a DOUBLE LIFE!
He wasn’t just cheating on her with another woman! He was cheating on the other woman with her!
That seems so much worse, doesn’t it? You can’t even heap blame on the side piece — because you kind of ARE the side piece!
“How could I have helped so many people @ndvhofficial and not be wise enough or able to help myself.”
She’s referring to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, of which Pam has been a big supporter for a long time.
Does that mean… was she the victim of violence?
She gives more insight in the comments section; she clearly has a LOT to say on the matter. She writes:
“Narcissists don’t change.
Sociopaths don’t change.
I will run for my life – I have always fought for truth and justice. –
this is my worst nightmare –
I was not a very jealous person before I met him.
I’m happy to know the truth.
But it hurts like hell. ?”
And more on how his double life worked — and how she found out about it…
“I’m glad I spoke to his ex.
He lied to her about all too.
She’s also in shock and is very sad.
It’s the evidence I needed to move on.
He can’t hurt us more.
He warned me that all the tabloids in France are his and his sisters friends?
They control all –
So my last note is here
Really? He has the French tabloids in his pocket?
Well, not here, baby!
It seems Pam is so scared of the media there — or maybe Adil himself? — she is leaving the country! She reveals:
“I will leave France now.
He has tried all –
He has sent flowers
I did not accept.
He showed up to my hotel.
Security took him away.
I have a body guard because he scares me.
He has hurt me and threatened me many times“
Oh no. We were worried that’s what she was implying.
“I don’t think I’ll recover easily from this.
I am not a stupid girl.
I felt many times his lies,
But we were together every day – unless I went away to work.
This was always hard because he did not trust me?
He was very insecure?
He wanted me next to him always – or video every location I was?, with who?
I learned to accept this as normal.
And even found myself asking him the same ridiculous questions?”
Oh, poor thing.
Gurl, we have all been there. You just don’t want to believe, but the clues are there.
Ladies, listen to that little voice!
If you think he’s no good, follow that instinct!
For Pam, it was more than just a little voice inside. She says:
“Some knew all along.
David Lachapelle told me from the beginning that he was a liar.
That he was not to be trusted.
He told him to his face and looked at me and said Pamela this is a fling.
Don’t get your heart involved.
I didn’t listen .
I was not allowed to see David more after this.
He cut my ‘crazy’ friends one by one out of my life.”
Good photographers have an eye. They see stuff.
Props to David LaChapelle for trying.
Pam goes on to talk about Adil’s charity work:
“He should not be the face of protecting women from domestic violence.
Or protecting women at all.
He did this to improve image- only.
He has no respect for any woman but his mother.
And he lies to her too – they all lie.
It’s very painful.
I’m so so sad.
I will feel my feelings and move on.”
She’s speaking of Solidarite Femmes, an organization which is supposed to help women who are victims of domestic violence. Adil is one of the public faces of the organization — we hope not for much longer!
Pam gets more personal, writing:
“He wanted to marry me?
Meet my father.
Love me for life?
I’m devastated after talking to his ex girlfriend.
The mother of his young sons.
I never felt good about dating someone with young babies.
I wanted to know what happened. –
How could he leave them alone?
Why were they apart?
He wouldn’t talk about it.
I did all to encourage their reunion.
He told me it was impossible.
That even if he was not with me they would not be together.”
From what we’re getting, Adil was still hooking up with his baby momma — and keeping his relationship with Pam a secret.
So basically that means he was using the act of visiting his kids as a front for being a two-timing dog??
Gross. She continues:
“But they were .. I feel worse for her, for them.
His family even lies for him.
I feel used.
Betrayed and hurt.
But I should’ve known better.”
She reveals more of his behavior, writing:
The physical and emotional torture.
It was all a mirror of his own actions.
I did try to leave 10 times.
Every time he chased me to say he’d die without me.
He’d go to therapy.
He wouldn’t hurt me again.
He wanted us to live in Malibu one day.
I even emailed my friend who owns LA team for him for next year. Like he asked me to.”
Good thing that didn’t work out…
“I introduced him to my good friends –
He trained in Malibu with people I admire and trust.
I was happy to see him there.
He seemed happy around dedicated honest people.
Well we are all in shock.
He has disappointed us all.
Nope, not the end! Pam is still PISSED about a great many things in retrospect!
“He asks me to post photos of him on my Instagram?
He begged me to do while he was in NY with his guy friends on holiday.
While I waited in our house in Marseille.
We were to meet in Paris yesterday – we rented a house in Cassis so we could enjoy the beach with my dog and he’d train and prepare for new season @olympicdemarseille”
Something tells us she may have even more to get off her chest.
So with all that digested…
Adil responded a few hours later by posting a very similar photo of the two of the (former) couple.
He wrote (translated from French):
“A break is never easy. As often in these situations, emotion can take over and let excessive things express itself.”
Damn, how do you say “gaslighting” en français??
“Pamela is a whole person, whom I deeply respect, who has convictions, who is sincere in her struggles, and for whom my love has always been sincere. That’s what I want to remember.”
Well, unfortunately she won’t be able to remember that — since you took a crap on all of it by being with another woman!
Does Adil even deny the accusation? Well, kind of. It seems more like he’s taking umbrage at the verbiage…
“I do not think we should reveal our intimacy, our history, which only looks at us. On this point, however, I want to shed light. In no case do I lead a double life, I am simply attached to preserve a lasting relationship with my children and their mother Sidonie for whom I have a deep respect.”
Does that deep respect involve having sex with both parties and not telling anyone? Because THAT is the accusation here.
He simply says:
“That’s right I should have been more transparent in this ambiguous relationship.”
We think that’s almost an admission of guilt? Almost?
He concludes by defending his position with his domestic violence organization:
“I remain and will remain faithful to my values and beliefs which are mine and express myself in my commitment for the association @solidaritefemmes, which is always so strong. I am proud to have participated in this great and beautiful campaign that has made known the exceptional work of this association and its members.”
“I wish the appeasement and the discretion for our families and friends, even if I am pained and hurt. I hope you understand and respect it.”
What do YOU think of this she said, he said, she said a lot more and was more convincing?
Let us know in the comments (below)!
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