Lisa Appleton Sex Doctor: ‘Had a threesome with my man and now prefer his pal’

Lisa Appleton is back sharing her pearls of wisdom to help Daily Star Online readers with sex and relationships.

Last week, the Big Brother beauty was helping someone who preferred solo sex to sleeping with her first proper boyfriend.

Lisa said that communication is key and not putting too much pressure on things will soon improve their sex lives.

This week, Lisa is helping someone who had a threesome with her boyfriend and his mate, but now she prefers his well-endowed pal.

She's confused as to whether she should stay with her boyfriend or move on with his mate.

We wonder what Lisa will have to say about this one!

'Had a threesome with my man and now prefer his pal'

Dear Lisa,

I’ve found myself in a bit of a dilemma. My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a few months.

But despite us only having been together for a short time, he was quite keen to take our bedroom action to the next level.

Therefore, he suggested having a threesome with his male pal. So it was just me and my boyfriend and this other good-looking guy.

And despite being apprehensive at first, I really enjoyed it and it was super hot. His friend was amazing in bed and very well endowed.

Despite it just being a one off with his friend, I keep fantasising about him when me and my boyfriend have had sex since.

We’ve also exchanged a few friendly texts, which have now taken a bit of a flirty turn so I think he likes me.

I think I want to be with him but I don’t know if it’s a good idea. Should I put myself out there?

Thanks

Anonymous

Lisa says:

Well, it sounds to me that typical scenario of when you first meet someone, you're having fun, you're getting to know each other, you're not committed to having a full-on relationship – so I think it's quite normal to you know, be casual.

But it does sound a bit naughty to be fair, does he really respect you putting you in that position to start with and expecting that from you?

Is he interested in seeing you as a girlfriend? A couple of months is nothing in a relationship and it's very casual and flirty and you're obviously having fun but you now fancy his pal.

But things are casual and you're obviously having fun and you and your fella are still early stages.

And if his friend is texting you, it's probably better to go with your feelings and if you feel that there's a spark between you and his friend, I would just go for it.

Because why are you going to go with your current man if there's not as many sparks?

Your man has set set himself up for a fall and he doesn't really seem bothered, because if he was really bothered he wouldn't be wanting his girl to sleep with his friend.

And now you fancy the pants off him, so you should just go for it and not worry about the other one because obviously you don't feel as strongly about him anyway.

So, just go for it, enjoy yourself and don't worry too much about it, as it's still early stages so just have fun.


Lisa Appleton returns next week with more of her pearls of wisdom

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